📱 eBook en inglés IT'S NOT ABOUT COMMANDING RESPECT, IT'S ABOUT PERMISSION TO TAKE UP SPACE

This book explores the often-misunderstood relationship between professional presence and inner permission—the ways we confuse commanding respect with performing confidence, and how the pressure to project authority can actually disconnect us from genuine self-assurance. It examines why professional presence advice often feels performative or exhausting: the constant self-monitoring, the fear of seeming "too much" or "not enough," the sense that credibility requires suppressing parts of yourself.
Rather than offering techniques to project power or master body language, the text reframes professional presence as fundamentally about self-permission—permission to occupy space without apologizing, to speak without over-explaining, to hold boundaries without justifying. It explores the patterns that undermine this permission: perfectionism disguised as professionalism, people-pleasing masked as collaboration, the internalized belief that respect must be earned through relentless competence rather than simply claimed through presence.
Through psychological insight, the book examines what actually creates sustainable professional confidence versus what creates performance anxiety. It explores the difference between commanding respect (external validation through force) and embodying self-respect (internal permission that others naturally recognize). This isnt about becoming more assertive or projecting authority—its about understanding what blocks your natural presence and what helps you stop performing credibility you already possess.