📱 eBook en inglés MASK OFF: STOP PEOPLE-PLEASING & BE YOURSELF

This book explores the hidden psychology of people-pleasing—not as kindness or generosity, but as a survival strategy rooted in the fear of rejection, conflict, or abandonment. It examines why saying no feels impossible even when yes is breaking you, and what this pattern reveals about early experiences where your needs werent safe to express.
Rather than treating people-pleasing as a bad habit to break, this book reframes it as an adaptive response that once protected you but now prevents genuine connection. It investigates the difference between authentic generosity and compulsive accommodation, the role of childhood conditioning in shaping these patterns, and why you might fear other peoples disappointment more than your own exhaustion. It explores how people-pleasing creates relationships built on performance rather than presence, and why dropping the mask can initially feel like losing your identity.
Through compassionate inquiry, the book navigates the terror of being disliked, the guilt that accompanies setting boundaries, and the grief of recognizing how long youve been invisible to yourself. It offers insight into what happens when you stop managing other peoples emotions, when you allow discomfort instead of rushing to fix it, and how to discern between connection that requires your silence and relationships that can hold your truth.
This is an invitation to examine the cost of constant accommodation—not through self-criticism, but through honest reflection on what youve sacrificed to be acceptable, and what becomes possible when you risk being real instead of being liked.