📱 eBook en inglés IT'S NOT ABOUT FORGIVING YOUR INNER CHILD, IT'S ABOUT BEING BELIEVED

This book explores the often-misunderstood concept of inner child work—particularly the ways were told to "forgive our inner child" or "heal the wounded child within" when what that younger self actually needs isnt forgiveness but to finally be believed. It examines how therapeutic language around inner child healing can sometimes recreate the original wound: the pressure to understand, rationalize, or move past childhood pain before truly acknowledging what happened and how it felt.
Rather than focusing on forgiveness as the path to healing, the text reframes inner child work as fundamentally about witness—giving your younger self the validation, belief, and acknowledgment they never received. It explores the patterns that block this witness: the internalized minimization of your own experiences, the pressure to forgive perpetrators or circumstances prematurely, the shame of still being affected by "old" pain. What does it mean when your inner child doesnt want to forgive, doesnt want to understand why things happened—but simply wants someone to say "that was real, and it mattered"?
Through compassionate psychological insight, the book examines what actually allows childhood pain to integrate versus what keeps it frozen—and why being witnessed often matters more than forgiveness, understanding, or moving on. This isnt about healing your inner child or achieving closure—its about recognizing that some parts of you are still waiting to be believed, and that this belief might be more transformative than any forgiveness work.